The Grief Recovery Method
An evidence-based program that teaches you how to manage and cope with unresolved grief
When you are suffering daily with the pain of a broken heart, there is one central question you need to ask yourself:
Do I want to continue to suffer this pain for the rest of my life?
Many people think this is the only option and the fate they must endure forever. Many become accustomed to finding themselves in tears at odd moments throughout their days when they think of a loss. Others believe their loss has destroyed their happiness and sense of security, and now feel that they will be bitter and joyless forever.
That is not the case. You have options that can move you out from under this cloud.
Evidence-Based Distinction
We at the Grief Recovery Institute are proud to say that research at Kent State University has shown that The Grief Recovery Method approach to helping grievers deal with the pain of emotional loss in any relationship is "Evidence-Based" and effective. We are also proud to say that our program is the only Grief Support Program to have received this distinction.
If you are here trying to find personal support in dealing with an emotional loss, WE ARE HERE TO HELP.
People often say, “You have to let go or move on in your life,” but they don’t tell you how.
The Grief Recovery Method, developed and refined over the past 40 years, makes that possible.
We offer group and one-to-one Grief Recovery Method Support Programs to assist grievers, regardless of the emotional loss.
Certified Grief Recovery Method Specialist Cleo Santiago leads each of these programs.
Trained by the Grief Recovery Institute, Cleo Santiago is not just a trained professional, but also an individual who uses the same action plan to deal with loss in his own life. Therefore, he understands the pain of grief on a personal level.
Frequently Asked Questions
How is The Grief Recovery Method different from therapy?
Unlike traditional therapy, The Grief Recovery Method® comes with a pre-established framework, a distinct focus on grief, and a limited number of meetings.
The Grief Recovery Method® is an educational experience, not therapy. Since most people have never been given practical tools for dealing with grief, they are not equipped to manage it on their own. Grief is the normal and natural reaction to loss. It is not a pathological condition, nor is it a personality disorder.
What's the difference between 1-on-1 and group programs
In a one-on-one program, you’ll work directly with Cleo Santiago, Grief Recovery Method Specialist. You’ll be very supported throughout the process.
You’ll go through The Grief Recovery Method alongside other participants in a group format. Please know that we won’t share your work through the process with the entire group. We will partner you with one person, and both will share (you will not be receiving feedback from other participants- only from your Grief Recovery Method Specialist) to ensure you feel safe and comfortable.
What types of losses can we
help you with?
• Relationship loss
• Pet loss
• Death
• Loss safety and trust
• Loss of health
• Job Loss
• Divorce
• Empty Nest
And many more types of emotional and physical losses.
Our Services
Grief Recovery Method Individualized
Our individualized grief recovery method provides a
safe environment for you to look at your old beliefs
about dealing with loss, which losses have affected
your life, and take action steps to resolve the
emotions still causing you pain.
This is an action-based group that involves reading
and writing assignments.
Consists of 7 weeks of individualized support
sessions.
You will learn a lot and have the one-on-one support of a Grief Recovery Method Specialist.
Grief Recovery Method Support Group
Our grief recovery method support group provides a
safe environment for you to look at your old beliefs
about dealing with loss, which losses have affected
your life, and how to resolve emotions that are still
causing you pain.
This is an action-based group that involves reading
and writing assignments.
Groups run for 8 consecutive weeks and are limited
to 12 individuals per group.
You will learn a lot and have the support of a grief
Recovery Method Specialist and the camaraderie of
other participants experiencing grief.
ABOUT OUR SPECIALIST
Cleo J. Santiago, BCCC, BCPC, GRMS
Cleo Santiago is a compassionate and empathetic Grief Recovery Method Specialist dedicated to helping individuals navigate the challenging, complex grief process. With his specialized training from the Grief Recovery Institute, Cleo is equipped with the knowledge and tools necessary to help his grievers move beyond the emotional pain caused by loss of any kind.
Cleo is passionate about educating grievers. In June 1999, Cleo's mother was tragically hit by a motor vehicle that was near fatal. As a result of the impact of the car, Cleo's mother suffered a brain injury causing brain damage of 15%, according to the medical team at the time. Cleo's journey through his grief has ignited Cleo's desire to companion grievers through the wilderness of grief.
Cleo Santiago is a Board-Certified Clinical Chaplain, and Pastoral Counselor involved in Hospice Care and Corrections. He has completed his Clinical Training at Hackensack Meridian Health Palisades Medical Center with the College of Pastoral Supervision and Psychotherapy.
Cleo Santiago is an ordained Pastor with the Lutheran Orthodox Church NY-NJ. He has been active in empowering communities since 2004. He continues to partner with local community leaders, helping community members recover from loss, pain, and addiction. He has integrated his life experience with his Clinical Training in the care and education of the community.
Cleo provides GRM in Northern New Jersey. He provides the Grief Recovery Method one-on-one as well as in groups. He is additionally certified to conduct the GRM Pet Loss module as well as "Helping Children with Loss." Cleo also points out that although he is a Pastor/Chaplain, he is eager to share that the Grief Recovery Method program is NOT a religious or faith-based method and is effective for individuals from all backgrounds, worldviews, and histories.
Get your autographed copy of Cleo Santiago's debut book
Our Everlasting Hope
Discovering Hope Despite Life's Tragedies
Office:
111 Town Square Place
Suite 1203
Jersey City, New Jersey, 07310
Call
201-605-6828
Email:
cleo@onedayatatimeconsulting.com
Site:
www.onedayatatimeconsulting.com